Are you looking for a way to tell someone that it's time for you to take responsibility for something? You could say it’s time for you to “bite the bullet” and be accountable. This post unpacks the meaning and origin of this expression.
Meaning
The expression “bite the bullet” means that you’re stepping up and taking responsibility for something that could get you in trouble or result in an adverse outcome. It’s a way of saying that you need to be accountable for your actions and accept the consequences.
Example Usage
"It's time for me to bite the bullet and admit what I've done. I've been reckless in insisting that we use the new CRM system, and sales are lower this quarter because of my actions."
"I think it's time you bite the bullet and admit to what you did, Jane. If you don't come clean, the guilt will keep eating you alive forever."
"We all know when it's time to bite the bullet and face reality. It's not something we like to do, but it's something that has to be done."
"There's no easy way to say that the only way out of this for you is to bite the bullet and tell her what you did. All you can do is hope for forgiveness."
"If we bite the bullet and come clean, maybe there's a chance that they forgive us and let us back into the group. Don't you think it's worth a try?"
"I'm going to bite the bullet and put my head on the block for this. I'm confident everything will work out, and I'm committed to the project's success."
Origin
The expression "bite the bullet" originates from the American Civil War. During this time, an anesthetic was not available for medical procedures. The legend goes that men would bite down on bullets when undergoing surgery. They would also use the practice to mitigate pain when receiving capital punishment, such as whippings with the cat-o-nine-tails.
So, if you were going to get lashes, you would bite the bullet to take your mind off the pain of the experience.
The first appearance of "bite the bullet" comes in "Grose's Classical Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue," published in 1796, where it appears as follows.
"while under the discipline of the cat of nine tails; to avoid which, they chew a bullet."
Rudyard Kipling also used the phrase in a dialogue within his novel, "The Light that Failed," published in 1891. Its use alludes to the notion that we can gain fortitude by biting the bullet.
"Steady, Dickie, steady!' said the deep voice in his ear, and the grip tightened. 'Bite on the bullet, old man, and don't let them think you're afraid."
Phrases Similar to Bite the Bullet
- Come clean.
- Admit responsibility.
Phrases Opposite to Bite the Bullet
- Avoid accountability and responsibility.
- Hide away.
- Kick the can down the road.
What is the Correct Saying?
- Bite the bullet.
Ways People May Say Bite the Bullet Incorrectly
The phrase has nothing to do with biting bullets. It doesn't refer to catching bullets in your teeth. In this case, the "Bullet" is a problem that could have adverse consequences for you. To "bite" means that it's time for you to come clean-or hold yourself responsible for your actions.
Acceptable Ways to Phrase Bite the Bullet
You can use the phrase "bite the bullet" when you're telling someone that they need to confess to their actions and take responsibility for the situation they create. The term suits social and professional communications. Use it at work to say you have to "bite the bullet" and take responsibility for the failure of the new CRM system.
You could tell your friends that it's time to "bite the bullet" and go home to your wide, who will be upset you've been out all night drinking. To bite the bullet means that the results of holding yourself accountable and responsible will turn out bad for you.